If somebody you love has kidney failure, you know that caring for him/her can be rewarding, but is not always easy. Being a good care partner should not mean sacrificing your own well-being.
I have a nursing background, so I worry a little more than most. But my father is still pretty independent and has always maintained a "whatever will be, will be" kind of attitude. I take him to his dialysis appointments a few times a week, so I have to plan my schedule around his. It can be tiring at times, but I want to be there for him and help out in ways that I can.
If I could take this away from my son and give it to myself, I would. As a parent, I do whatever it takes. But it's really important to try to balance things and take time for yourself. Sometimes, I just need to go in my room, and have a few minutes to myself.
My daughter doesn't like to be treated like a sick person. So we tried to have our daughter have a normal life. Growing up, she still had chores; I treated her like the other kids.
I know my wife feels guilty because I often have to take her to appointments. The stress can be difficult for both of us, but I do what I need to do for her. I know she'd do the same for me.